It's all bout happiness. Happiness is good feelings. When you are happy, your whole body is happy(a certain chemical substance is released from your brain to your whole body with the help of your blood). Everything is nice to touch, everything is wonderful to see, everything sound is music, every taste is sweet. Your happiness is expressed throughout your body and people start loving you. They want to touch you, smell you, admire you. The more happy you become, the more attracted they become and the more body contact they desire, it goes from small caresses, licking up to real sex. They would even want to eat your nastiest parts because they love you and they want the maximum of you. Love leads to sex and sex is not necessarily about reproduction but about expression of Love. [humans and their close relative bonobos are the only species that engage sexual intercourse beyond reproduction; for sheer pleasure]
Physical appearance also plays a role, "perfect" physical appearance attract more than "imperfect". You know what handsome people look like. If someone is both handsome and happy it's it's much better.
Happiness happens when you know the truth and live in harmony with the truth and feed your body with the best food. The food that is best suitable for a human body. fruits, etc. You also become happy when you are accepted by the society or even when people find you beautiful this explains why handsome people are much happier.
If you are happy the world looks beautiful and you look beautiful. If you are depressed, the world looks disgusting and you look disgusting and people start avoiding you (even if you are pretty looking).
As previously mentioned, you can become happy when the society accepts you. When you are greatly admired, this creates a feeling of jealousy among people but also a need to have a strong contact with you. If you haven't noticed, but the people who express their anger towards you for no apparent reason or who try to ignore you, are in fact very attracted to you and want more attention from you.If you are smart and admired by your smartness, people will start falling in love with you.
|All girls love him because he is one of the greatest soccer player|
guess if he was working in Burger King would girls still love him
|They have everything and they're so "perfect"!|
|Great actor, Great westeler, nice body, all girls love him|
|"Swag!" and "He might have a nice car, have nice shoes, have a hot girlfriend,|
lnows many people at the club, smokes weed. The perfect boyfriend for a girl
To be attractive, you have to be in harmony with your whole body, low self esteem will lead to people denigrating you. Higher esteem of one's self will lead people to find you powerful. When your body doesn't functions properly for example,if it emanates abnormal smell, you are sick, etc. you cannot become attractive.
|Woman who self-esteems herself and thus become unattractive|
|Guy who takes care of his appearance|
and thus becomes attractive
Some girls prefer dominant guys and are less attracted to kind guys. They prefer to be treated like sluts or even "sexual slaves" the more they submit, the more they enjoy it.
Other girls enjoy the role of being dominant and having guys submitting to her. They love playing with guys espcially those who are shy and kind. It excites them.
Besides loves there is also sexual desire. You can want sex with someone without loving the personality of that person. You just want his body for your own pleasure. Being sexy is being able to attract sexual desire towards you. Someone can be both ugly and sexy.
|can be sexy but not handsome|
Why do people have some preferences?
People may say "I love Asian girls" , "I love tall guys", "I love skaters or I love cheerleaders". There is no such a thing as preference.
The fact is someone was happy, you felt in love with that person and...We mammals have the tendency to generalize. If a Portuguese for example was unkind to you, you will start hate all of them. If a snake bit you, you will be scared of all of them. If a Hindu was nice to you, you will love all of them. If you fell in love with an Asian girl, you will start to find other Asians attractive. There you go, your preference for Asians. If you fell in love with a fat girl you will start having a preference for fat girls.
|The first emo girl you fell in love|
with made you love all others
|girl's body but guy's behavior|
|Guy's body but girl's behavior|
Quizz: Are you sure about your own sexual orientation? Try this quizz. Tell us which skin sample are you attracted to?